Is the viral Lem toy worth the TikTok hype? I put it to the test (Spoiler: It's better than the Rose)

Jul 17

TikTok might not be the first place you think to look for recommendations on sex toys. A refreshing citrus salad? Sure. The latest viral lipstick hack? Absolutely. But devices for down there...? Perhaps not so much.

But before you go running back to your half-broken toy from Temu, hear me out – as with unlikely animal friendships and incognito ex-stalking, sometimes social media delivers, and in this instance, TikTok is onto a winner.

It’s called Lem, a (you guessed it) lemon-shaped clit sucker. Designed by sexual wellness company Nancy, their toys are discreet, extremely beginner-friendly, and fit right in with the fruit basket on your kitchen island.

So here’s absolutely everything you need to know...

I was sceptical at first…

As a relative newbie to the world of vibrators—and suction toys in particular—I was initially apprehensive about Lem. First, it’s hard for me to trust anything that’s gone viral, especially on TikTok. Second, as I mentioned, I’d never used a suction toy before.

Eventually, I caved. I was feeling the pressure from loads of videos online, and the adorable lemon shape certainly didn’t hurt.

What is Lem?

You might see Lem described as a vibrator, clit sucker, or pleasure air toy – but they all amount to the same thing: a clitoral suction toy.

Standing about 8cm tall, Lem looks like a, well, lemon—with a small hole in the middle. This hole cups your clitoris (or nipple—no judgment here) and sucks on it. It's made of super-soft, medical-grade silicone, making it a pleasure just to hold, and uses a USB pin charger, allowing you to charge it whenever and wherever.

And for those who are asking – yep, it’s waterproof, so shower sex is fully on the cards.

Why is Lem viral on TikTok?

Let’s just say there are some sex-positive queens (and kings) out there sharing some really authentic reviews. Shiny-faced and looking mighty pleased with themselves, users are flocking to TikTok to describe their experiences with Lem.

Actress, singer, and pleasure advocate Aryn Cristobal noted that you can ‘put Lem on a surface and it’s not gonna look like anything’, and that ‘Lem sucks - but not in a bad way’. That pun did not fly over our heads!

In one video, the slightly shell-shocked uploader claims she ‘used it until it ran out of juice… as [she] was full of juice!’. In another, a user describes Lem as making it feel like ‘it’s Christmas morning every morning’.

You’ll also find a number of how-to guides: one user suggests either going directly on the clitoris or around the surrounding areas if you're too sensitive.

With ten different patterns and intensities, it shouldn't be too hard to find what works for you anyway. Speaking of which…

It’s meant to feel just like oral

Lem uses air pressure technology to emulate the crème de la crème of cunnilingus – think suction, vibrations, and a fluttering, licking sensation. Sounds good, no? It has 10 settings to flick through, from a steady rumble increasing across four intensities, to six different buzzing patterns.

However, what sets it apart from other clitoral suction toys, apart from its good looks, is just how discreet it is.

How do you use Lem?

Fully charged and ready to rock? Follow these simple steps to get the best from your Lem.

As with any sex toy, clean it before and after use with a mild, antibacterial soap or sex toy cleaner.
Remove any piercings or jewelry in the genital area.
Get comfortable and apply lube to the toy, yourself, or both! Water-based lubricant is recommended to avoid damaging sex toys.
Spread the labia slightly to expose the clitoris and enclose it with the head of the toy. Use light pressure to maintain a tight seal.
Explore the different settings and enjoy!

What do you get with Lem?

Nancy presents two enticing options for those ready to dive into a world of pleasure:

Lem ($85, originally $159): This is the core offering, providing you with Nancy’s debut clitoral air suction. It's tailored especially for those new to the world of self-exploration.

Beginner Bliss Bundle ($159, originally $229): For those who want to explore more, the Beginner Bliss Bundle is for you. It not only includes Lem but also Uno, a beginner-friendly bullet vibrator, the Pleasure Pouch, perfect for discreet storage, and a Playtime Pleasures guide, which is essentially a beginner's roadmap to pleasure.

At first, I hesitated because of the price. But then I thought, this is my first actual suction toy, and I didn't want to skimp on quality. I've always believed in the saying, "You get what you pay for." And with something as personal as this, I wanted the best.

I also opted for the Beginner Bliss Bundle. Why? Because I wanted to try both the vibrator and clit sucker to see which one I liked. It also felt like the best value for my money (I mean, who doesn't love a good deal?).

So… the verdict?

All right, no more stalling - let's get down to it. Does Lem live up to the hype?

Firstly, the nitty-gritty. Lem had a host of practical features I loved:

Comfortable – While not specifically designed to be ergonomic, it was still easy to hold during solo sex.
10 settings – Whoever said variety was the spice of life wasn’t kidding. The 10 functions – four levels of intensity and six patterns – can take you from warm-up to blow-up and everywhere in between.
Quiet – While no vibrator is totally silent, this was relatively quiet and won’t alert your upstairs neighbors. Although I can’t promise the same when it comes to you…
Run time – Fully charged, this thing can go for 120 minutes. Trust me, you won't need that long.
USB charging – Lem charges quickly using USB pin chargers, so there’s no obtrusions to spoil your playtime.
Waterproof – As mentioned, Lem is completely waterproof, so it's suitable for all your rub-a-dub adventures.

So, what about the sensation? To be honest, as someone new to the world of pleasure toys, I wasn’t sure what to expect. However, I started on the lowest setting and built my way up, and my God, it is powerful. Almost immediately the magic started to happen, and I had to put it through a number of tests to try out all the functions (tiny violin). I guess what I’m saying is it gets you there, and it gets you there fast. I can’t say I was timing it (way to kill the mood), but trust me.

The combination of airwaves and pulsations is truly mind-blowing, and you’d be forgiven for thinking you were at the mercy of some oral wizard.

Rest assured, I can safely say I’m as addicted as the rest of TikTok – for something so unassuming-looking, Lem sure does deliver. And from now on, when we say ‘bring me a snack’, this is what we’re referring to.

It’s your turn now!

Despite my initial hesitation, Lem proved to be a... zesty surprise. It's a little quirky and a lot of fun, and I’m more than happy to have it in my life.

For anyone curious about exploring self-pleasure, Lem is a great introduction. I can't speak for the sexperts out there, but for beginners, it definitely takes the cake. I mean, gee, look at me! Blabbering on and on…

Anyway, YES. Get Lem. You won’t regret it!

P.S. One thing that was incredibly frustrating was that Lem was initially out of stock. I waited a whole month to finally get my hands on the thing!

So, if you do visit their website hellonancy.com, and stock is available, make sure to get it ASAP as you never know when they might run out again. I also found this code online, ‘SQUEEZE’, that’ll get you 15% off if it still works!

Happy shopping 😉

Sandra P.