Is your love life more ‘yuck’ than ‘yum’?
Are things in the bedroom not as spicy as you'd like? Not feeling as much pleasure as you want? Do you think you or your partner could be doing more?
I'm Sara, the founder of Sarasense, and I've been there. What I've learned is that the journey to better experiences in bed often starts from within. It's about taking the initiative to understand your body and its needs before you can truly enjoy more satisfying sexual experiences.
But, I know, I know. It’s not that simple. Sometimes, the issues are more deep-rooted than that…
Growing up in a religious family in Asia, I felt a lot of shame and guilt every time sex crossed my mind.
Which, as you can imagine, was quite a lot! I had so many questions, but no one to ask or talk to. In the hushed whispers of my conservative household, where topics like sex were taboo, I felt so alone.
The pews and bells - rich religious symbols - were also silent reminders of the laws that ruled my thoughts and actions.
So I decided to take matters into my own hands - quite literally - and embarked on my own sexual journey of trial and error. In the quiet of my room, behind a shoddily locked door, I tried to understand my desires. I was always so scared of getting caught, but you know what they say…
Curiosity killed the cat, but satisfaction brought it back.
As I grew older, I devoted myself to studying, writing, and educating people about sex, working towards building a more sex-positive world.
And today, I’m far from that little kid in a locked room, having been a student of Human Sexuality at Stanford University, an erotic writer, and a sex toy party entrepreneur.
My podcast, Better in Bed, has reached over a million people in 88 countries and is featured as one of the Best Sex Podcasts in Esquire and The Guardian.
What I’ve realized as a coach, more than anything, is how much I love helping people who come from a similar background to mine. I understand the struggle of balancing traditional values with personal desires, and I’m here to tell you that it’s okay to become a pleasure seeker.
Simply put, my mission is to normalize the way we talk about sex. I want to create a world where conversations about sex are as natural as discussing the weather, where no one feels the shame or guilt that once held me back.
Not had much of a sex education growing up?
I've been where you are. I often think that if I had someone to talk to or get advice from earlier, things might have clicked into place sooner.
That's why I'm here, sharing everything I've learned in the hopes it might make your journey a little easier.
The thoughts I always had during sex and masturbation but never spoke about:
“I’ve never really pleasured myself before”
“I don’t know where to start”
“I was raised in an environment where sex was taboo”
“I want a safe space to explore my body”
“I want to learn more about myself and what makes me feel good”
Any of these sound like you?
A study conducted by the International Journal of Sexual Health found that 48.5% of women reported experiencing sexual shame at some point in their lives.
There’s this common theme I’ve noticed among women - a lot of us are walking around wishing we knew earlier how to shake off that heavy coat of sexual guilt and shame. The majority of women I’ve talked to have been burdened by these thoughts, trying to figure out how to get past them.
So, let me share with you all the wisdom I’ve picked up along the way. Let’s chat like we’re having coffee, and I’ll pass on to you secrets that can truly change how you view and experience your sexuality.
I made the masterclass.
With a vision of breaking the stigma surrounding sex and pleasure, I have united with Nancy to create an innovative and groundbreaking solo play masterclass. This collaboration is driven by aligned values and a shared mission to foster a more inclusive, open-minded approach to sexuality.
We share a common goal of bringing comprehensive sexual wellness education to Asia and beyond. It was this shared goal that brought us together, and from there, the idea was clear—we needed to create something truly special.
Own Your O: The Shame Free Guide to Self-Pleasure
This realization sparked the birth of our masterclass, –– Own Your O - the shame-free guide to self-pleasure. The aim was at unlocking the secrets of sexual wellness through self-pleasure and orgasms. Whether you're just starting to explore your body, eager to unlock more orgasmic potential, or looking to boost pleasure for your female partner, we designed this course to bridge the educational gaps many of us have faced.
As seen on Tatler…
I was drawn to partner with sexual wellness brand Nancy because I saw a perfect alignment between their vision and my own aspirations for creating a sex-positive world, breaking through taboos and shame, and normalising conversations around sex, particularly in the context of Asia. What excited me even more was when we discussed the untapped market potential for sex education in Asia. We recognised that there was a significant need for comprehensive and inclusive sex education in this region. We felt a deep calling to fill this gap and create something meaningful.
So, who is this for?
This course is crafted with love for those who:
Might be stepping into the world of self-pleasure for the first time and are not quite sure where to start.
Have dabbled a bit but are looking to explore deeper.
Grew up in places where sex was more or less a taboo topic; rarely, if ever, discussed openly.
Are on the lookout for a safe, welcoming, and completely judgment-free zone to learn about their bodies.
Are keen to deepen their understanding of their own sexuality and uncover new avenues of pleasure.
If you've ever found yourself wondering, "Have I ever really experienced an orgasm?" or "How can I make orgasms a more reliable part of my life?", then you're exactly who we had in mind when we created this course.
But, here's the catch:
Own Your O was designed to be an exclusive experience. You can't just sign up on a whim. Entry is by referral or invitation only, ensuring a safe and intimate learning environment. If you're here, consider yourself lucky because you’ve either been referred by a friend in need or have stumbled upon an invitation.
Don’t miss out on this unique opportunity to transform your sexual wellness journey. If you’ve made it this far, you’re already ahead of the curve. Take the next step and access the course via this link.
So, are you ready to Own Your O?
PS. As spots are limited and demand is high, don't wait too long. Secure your place in the masterclass now and join the community that's changing lives, one O at a time 😉 And hey, because you found your way here AND If there's a spot open, you can snag an extra 25% off by using the code “Sarasense”.
Happy orgasming!
