I wish I figured out what I liked alone, and then how to ask for it

Growing up in an Asian household, the vibrant festivals, rich tapestries, and warm fragrance of home-cooked meals were a constant.

But so were the muted taboos, hushed conversations, and unvoiced scripts we followed.

During my twenties, I had several relationships. Surprisingly, the more relationships I had, the less I understood about my own desires. There was little to no conversation about intimacy in my circle. Sex education was limited, and open discussions about personal desires were rare.

I realized I often prioritized others over myself. I wanted to change this pattern and break free from cultural constraints.

The World of Toys: Why was I So Late to the Party

During a routine happy hour with my girlfriends, I made an uncomfortable discovery:

I was the only one in the group who had not used a sex toy yet.

When I got home that night, a tentative Google search for some self-pleasure products became a myriad of artisanal glass-blown butt plugs and Cthulhu-inspired tentacle dildos.

Truthfully, I’d been turned off from buying toys for myself. I had been overwhelmed by mixed opinions from magazines, movies, and friends. It also didn’t help that the market was flooded with countless options.

But perhaps I’d dismissed toys in their entirety too quickly.

I wondered if perhaps I was missing out on something… maybe I just hadn’t found the right kind of toy for me. I set upon researching starter options for beginners, and that's when I came across Nancy and their newbie-friendly toy, Uno.

Though I'd never delved into the realm of pleasure products before, Uno caught my eye. It was designed with first-timers in mind, and it also helped that it had been championed by the experiences of hundreds of women across Asia.

However, the Uno seemed different. It was small, simple, unpretentious - almost like the perfect beginner’s choice.

This piqued my curiosity: How did Nancy come to design such a distinct product in a market flooded with intense and confusing options?

Nancy's Findings: Top Rated Sex Toys Are NOT For Beginners

The team at Nancy went above and beyond to figure this out. When Nancy assembled a group of first-time product testers and provided them with various top-rated toys available in the market, the feedback was eye-opening.

“It's like putting an earthquake into my vagina.” 🤯

“It felt like I was opening some tech geek electronic product which is not a feeling I'd like to associate with buying/ready-to-use a sex toy."

”Why are there SO MANY Patterns?!”

Despite some of this feedback being downright hilarious, it highlighted clear issues in the sex toy marketplace. Products were either too intense, lacked sensuality, or had confusing controls for a beginner’s liking.

A sobering revelation was made: countless women's needs were left unmet by what was available in the market, and even one woman left unsatisfied was one too many. Uno was the brainchild of a team on a mission. Recognizing the value of baby steps, Nancy unveiled the toy for beginners like me, offering a gentle segue into the world of self-discovery.

Meet Uno: Designed for the Curious, but Clueless

Nancy’s insights not only highlighted gaps in the market but directly shaped the features of Uno, making it the quintessential choice for beginners. Nancy got straight to the heart of the matter with three guiding design principles:

Sensual Unboxing Experience: Welcoming, not overwhelming. Uno comes with a self-love manual, complete with illustrations that tastefully celebrate your intimacy.
Strength Tailored To You: It's about the journey. Uno provides gentle, rumbling vibrations, perfect to complement your body’s natural tempo.
Simplified, Intuitive Controls: Enhance the experience, don't detract from it. No confusing buttons or overwhelming modes. It's also made of medical-grade silicone, ensuring a safe experience.

Uno wasn’t made for you to adjust to, but rather made to adjust to you.

What Do You Get with Uno?

Hello Nancy presents two enticing options for those ready to dive into a world of pleasure:

Just Uno (SGD 85, originally SGD 159): This is the core offering, providing you with Nancy’s debut personal massager. It's tailored especially for those new to the world of self-exploration.
Uno Bliss Bundle (SGD 105, originally SGD 199): This is the deluxe package, and honestly, it felt like the best value for my money (I mean, who doesn't love a good deal?).

At first, I hesitated because of the price. But then I thought, this is my first vibrator, and I didn't want to skimp on quality. I've always believed in the saying, "You get what you pay for." And with something as personal as this, I wanted the best.

I opted for the Bliss Bundle. Why? Because it wasn't just about the Uno massager. This bundle also threw in the Pleasure Pouch, perfect for discreet storage, and a Playtime Pleasures guide, which felt like a beginner's roadmap to pleasure.

First Try? More like a revelation!

I was both excited and nervous when my Uno arrived. Their short (and cute!) how-to videos really helped though. It was like having a friend guide me, especially when I felt a tad out of my depth. The video made the whole process less daunting and more inviting.

At first, I took it for a solo spin—feeling its weight in my hand and how it worked... 'down there'. The experience was enlightening.

Yes, the vibrations felt good. Yes, it was comfortable. But most importantly,

It gave me the sense of authority over my pleasure I’d been longing for all my life.

I was seeing my body in a whole new light.

After some apprehension, I decided to introduce Uno to my husband and I’s intimate sessions. Quite unexpectedly… it was an electrifying experience, albeit not without challenges. It's scary to be vulnerable in front of someone else. Being stark naked is one thing, but handing over control of your pleasure is a whole other level.

But when you do give some of that control up… Oh wow, does it feel incredible.

Here's the lesson I've learned: pleasure is everyone’s right. Whether it's a solo act, something you share, or something you give to someone else: allow yourself to accept those sensations. We all deserve to feel good.

Review by Aryn Cristobal, actress, singer and pleasure advocate.

So, Who’s Uno Really For?

Uno is for every woman who's ever felt curious, uncertain, or even overwhelmed by the idea of self-pleasure. Whether you're a complete novice or someone looking to add a new dimension to your sex life, Uno is made to support you. It's for those who want to break free from societal taboos, embrace their desires, and embark on a journey of self-discovery and pleasure—

One buzz at a time.

Just a heads up: If you're even slightly considering getting one, maybe take a quick glance at their website www.hellonancy.com when you can. A couple of friends mentioned they had a bit of a time trying to snag one lately.

But if it happens to be available, feel free to use my code 'Regalio' (for like a 15% off?) if it’s still working :)